Looking Back on 2016

I’ve had a full year! It’s hard to believe I was suicidal this time last year. A couple months ago my boss let us know we would have performance evaluations by the end of the year and gave us a …

The Thrill of Authenticity

My mission: “I choose to live… passionately, authentically, unapologetically.”   A couple of weeks ago I purchased a BDSMblem pendant online. Through this process of self-reflection, creating a mission statement and trying to understand what could possibly be an authentic representation of …

O My Conqueror

Last weekend O was here again. I struggle to describe the freedom I experience with him – when we’re together, when he dominates me, when he doesn’t, when we’re just texting casually or flirting. Everything feels so effortless with O.     …