About Me

Updated 3.10.17

Welcome to my humble cyber abode!

(My new fanfiction blog is located here)

A few years ago I thought it was about time I started sharing some of my experiences in this crazy life I live! I’m a happily married woman in her 20’s. My husband (H) and I chose from the very beginning not to have a monogamous relationship. In addition to these adventures, I’m also deeply submissive. However, H isn’t a Dom. This has left me constantly struggling to deal with some of my needs and desires that are left unmet, while still enjoying lots of kinky sex with a variety of people. H certainly tries to give me everything I could ever want, but I’m still wishing for an established relationship with a Dom. I have been exploring the DD/lg dynamic; I wouldn’t outright identify myself as little, but neither can I deny how beneficial expressing my inner little is for me. Check out my About Being little section to see what I’m reading, discovering and thinking on this subject.


In 2014 H and I became involved in a polyamorous relationship with another couple. You can find this story, The Cloverleaf Chronicles, starting with  The Beginning under Past ExperiencesIn addition to Recent Experiences, you can find two sub-categories under this section: the first archives all things related to Mr. Casual Friday (also known as MCF), my mentor and a favorite target of my fantasies; the second is my Self Portrait series from the first half of 2016. This section contains a collection of pieces describing my process of self-discovery which was occurring at that time. My newest category, Philosophy Corner, is a parking lot for my never-ending internal musings (most recently highlighting my exploration of my Myers-Briggs type, INTJ). For a more complete (read: very lengthy) repository specific to me, check out my recent post About Me – Personality Test RepositoryIf you care to explore more haphazardly, my Reblogged category is just that, a collection of others’ posts I liked so much I wanted to share them with my modest following 🙂


Although not perfect, I have an amazing life and a very happy marriage. That doesn’t mean it’s always easy! But nearly a year ago now I was tasked with creating a personal mission statement and while I’ve not yet achieve as much, it does clearly set out the goals I wish to focus on each day:

I choose to live passionately, authentically, unapologetically.


I’ve blogged a little about Past Experiences and H & my journey together, but I’m primarily focusing on Recent Experiences at this point. Please be forewarned: this site contains no-holds-barred access to my most intimate thoughts, feelings and sexual experiences. As open and honest as H and I are with one another in order to make our lifestyle work, this site will include previews of my thoughts and feelings that I have not yet shared even with him. I am stumbling step by step, word by word, through the maze in my mind seeking my truest self. Curious yet? Please, explore…


This blog is strictly 18+ and NSFW!


If anyone wishes to contact me directly, I can be reached on Twitter @LifestyleSub or on FetLife 🙂


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13 thoughts on “About Me

      • Your welcome. I also like your about me but as a sub, a little and a masochist I worry about us finding Masters. My Daddy has a hard time with his sadistic side so I feel for you.


  1. Ooh, really looking forward to reading this blog! I have some little tiny DD/lg fantasies bubbling to the surface right now, so I’m interested in anyone on the same journey. (And I ❤ kink in general.)


  2. Thanks for the likes/follow. When I first started my blog it was merely to get myself off with my own writing lol. I didn’t realize there was actually a kinky community on wordpress. Love what you’re doing. Keep it up.

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