About Me

Welcome to my humble cyber abode!

(My new fanfiction blog is located here)

A couple of years ago I thought it was about time I started sharing some of my experiences in this crazy life I live! I’m a happily married woman in her 20’s. My husband (H) and I have been swingers for years. In addition to these adventures, I’m also deeply submissive. However, H isn’t a Dom. This has left me constantly struggling to deal with some of my needs and desires that are left unmet, while still enjoying lots of kinky sex with a variety of people. H certainly tries to give me everything I could ever want, but I’m still wishing for an experienced Dom to handle me. I have begun to explore the DD/lg dynamic. I don’t currently identify as little, but on this journey toward a better understanding of myself that may very well be my path at some point. Check out my About Being little section to see what I’m reading, discovering and thinking on this subject.


In 2014 H and I became involved in a polyamorous relationship with another couple. You can find this story, The Cloverleaf Chronicles, starting with  The BeginningIn addition, I’ve recently added a couple of new sections under my Recent Experiences category. The first contains all things related to Mr. Casual Friday (also known as MCF), my mentor and a favorite target of my fantasies. The second (and newest addition) is entitled Self Portrait. Here you will discover a collection of the pieces from which my current identity is derived. If you wish to learn about me I recommend you begin in this section, with Evolution. Because this topic is so fundamental to the purpose of this blog, I did not wish for it to become buried as the focus of my blog shifts now that I’ve concluded this series…at least for now.


Although not perfect, I have an amazing life and a very happy marriage. That doesn’t mean it’s always easy! I’ve blogged a little about past experiences and H & my journey together, but I’m primarily focusing on recent experiences at this point. Please be forewarned: this site contains no-holds-barred access to my most intimate thoughts, feelings and sexual experiences. As open and honest as H and I are with one another in order to make our lifestyle work, this site will include previews of my thoughts and feelings that I have not yet shared even with him. I am stumbling step by step down a rocky, winding path to complete understanding, acceptance and inner peace. Curious yet? Please, explore…


This blog is strictly 18+ and NSFW!


If anyone wishes to contact me directly, I can be reached on Twitter @LifestyleSub or on FetLife :)


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10 thoughts on “About Me

  1. Ooh, really looking forward to reading this blog! I have some little tiny DD/lg fantasies bubbling to the surface right now, so I’m interested in anyone on the same journey. (And I❤ kink in general.)


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