Last week I attended a multi-state conference for work. During one of the break-out sessions I found myself seated at the same table as my middle school math teacher on whom I had a major crush for at least three … Continue reading
So I am completely new to the m/s. I am completely turned on my being dominated. I found a master. We are going to have our first session soon. I have never done anything bdsm wise before. Could you give me tips on how to be the perfect submissive gay slave for him please?
Your Master is your Master and will have the final word on how you are to behave. I can offer suggestions on what you may expect, but he is your Master and not I. I speak from my own experiences as a het Leatherman’s, your mileage may vary.
Having said that:
SERVICE When you accepted him as your Master, you are accepting a position of (ideally) unconditional service to him. Simply put, you are his for his pleasure. This requires a great deal of trust on the part of the slave; almost unconditional…
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We all have seen the posts on our social media. Facebook videos of bible thumping bumpkin breeders, Better-Be-A-Vagina vigilantes, and fame hungry Facebook dads all aflame with the newly found need to grope strangers. Of course, this isn’t a new idea, as trans issues have always been something that the American public, for the most […]
While we all experience a mix of motivations (often based on specific circumstances), most of us have one underlying motivator which drives us. This is what gets us excited to get up in the morning, what makes us want to … Continue reading
Last weekend O was here again. I struggle to describe the freedom I experience with him – when we’re together, when he dominates me, when he doesn’t, when we’re just texting casually or flirting. Everything feels so effortless with O. … Continue reading
The BDSM Emblem is a design based on a Triskele. The Triskele is the basic shape of the Emblem, with three “arms” curving out from the center and merging with an encompassing circle. The Triskele is an ancient shape that has had many uses and many meanings in many cultures. Not all Triskeles are BDSM Emblems! It is the details of the design that make it the BDSM Emblem. Those details are the black inner color, the silver-golden lines or in other words the rims and spokes are of a color indicating metal and last but not least what usually appears as dots over the internet are holes of identical color with the rims and spokes.
The idea behind what you know as the BDSM Emblem was initially proposed
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I finally crafted a mission statement I am willing to allow to represent me to others. Now don’t get me wrong, I haven’t abandoned my personal mission statement of “I choose to live passionately, authentically, unapologetically.” While very personally meaningful, … Continue reading