This is a whole box of tools about Inside Sidestepping. I evoked it in an article about how to disappear in oneself for a short moment : Waldgänger. It’s about “staying where you are, but you don’t believe anymore”. An exercise INTJs love to do !
In love, at work, at a meeting, within a group of friends : you can use thateverywhere. Suddenly you’re out. Suddenly you see how things work, and you become a watcher :
- It’s not rebelling, it’s about watching, and feeling differently
- Itcan beprotection, sheltering
- Suddenly youdon’t play the game, or you do “as if”, and you watch
- You let yourself be thoughtful, pensive, undecided
- The othersdon’t know you’re in your tent
- You can invent, build, and destroy your tent in a second
- You stay there, but you don’t believe,you’re a dilettante, a dabbler
- You can be sarcastic or ironic…
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